In Disney’s Encanto, we know that
Abuela Alma’s children – Julieta, Pepa and Bruno – are triplets. During the
time the main plot takes place in, they are all 50 years old. Pepa and Julieta
are both happily married and have three children each. Bruno, on the other
hand, has no wife or children. Sure, “one day he disappeared” – but he wasn’t
exactly a boy when it happened. That “one day” was after Mirabel’s gift ceremony,
ten years before the main events. So, when Bruno decided to leave the family,
he was 40 – and still single, despite his sisters being married for a decade or
so. How come he never married? How come Alma Madrigal, whom we see arranging
Isabela’s betrothal at 21, did not take efforts to find a wife for her only
son?
Warning: plot spoilers for Encanto
ahead!
The meta reasons
First of all, there are quite obvious
meta reasons why Bruno having a wife and child or children would have been
detrimental to the plot as it is now. Of course, a different plot could have
been made and could also have been good – but that’s not what the film’s
creators had in mind.
1) Bruno would have come off as selfish.
We find out during the movie that Bruno “left” – or rather, hid – primarily in
order to prevent the misinterpretation of his last prophecy from harming
Mirabel. Of course, the fact that he was already seen as spooky and problematic
both in the family and the community at large obviously played a role as well –
but nevertheless, he still loved the family and wanted to stay close by. His
departure was primarily a benevolent act.

But had Bruno had a wife and child,
that also would have robbed them of a husband and father. Such an act would
have been much harder to justify. Bruno would either have been pressed to stay
and actively try to make sure the prophecy wasn’t interpreted in a way
detrimental to Mirabel – or, if he left anyway, the act would no longer be
selfless. Instead of making a discreet sacrifice, he would have caused obvious
harm to his closest ones: preventing potential
harm to Mirabel could not have outweighed certain
emotional harm to the abandoned wife and children. That, again, could have
prevented his easy reintegration into the family in the end. A mother and
sisters might be so overcome with relief at the sight of a long-lost son and
brother for the question “how could you leave us??” not to be asked. That would
not have been so easy to pull off with a wife and child – a child who, if young
enough when Bruno left, would have had to grow up without a father.

2) Bruno’s wife and child would have had to be prominent characters
with added drama of their own. Let’s imagine for a
moment that Bruno nevertheless did
marry, have at least one child, and then abandon them anyway, seeing no other
way to protect Mirabel. With Bruno's reputation being as it was, it would have
rubbed off at least somewhat on the woman who married him (just imagine people
whispering: “What does she see in him? Did he trick her by saying they were
destined to marry?”), but all the more on his child. Both in the family and the
town, people would probably speculate if Bruno's child would inherit their
father's unsettling gift, or another similarly disturbing one. Even if the
child were to manifest a completely different power, spooky ways of using it
would likely come to people's minds much more easily than with the other
Madrigals.

Now add Bruno's sudden disappearance
on top of that! In addition to being traumatised by losing a husband and
father, his wife and child would have been swamped by a ton of speculation and
condemnation related to the creepy Bruno vanishing without a trace. I can
easily imagine town children whispering “that's Bruno's son!” in frightened
voices behind another little boy's back, for example. All that, in return,
would also have been much harder for Bruno to bear seeing in secret.

Thus, not only would have another two
characters (or more, if there was more than one child) been added to the
already large cast of the Madrigals – which could be confusing, particularly
for younger viewers – but those characters would come with pretty serious and
relevant drama of their own. Bruno, also, could not have been such a hugely
mysterious figure to the younger members of the family if his wife (maybe
considered a widow?) and child were still living in the house. They would also
have been among the logical first people for Mirabel to ask about Bruno. All
this could make for good drama in a film made for an older audience – and all
the more so in a TV series, where there would be more time to develop the nuances
– but it would have made things too dark and convoluted for a Disney feature
film.
In-universe reasons
Now, you will say, that is all very
fine reasoning for the screenwriters, but what was the reason for Bruno to stay
unmarried for so long in the story?
Even when meta-reasons are primary, they need to find a good justification
inside the universe. Fear not – those are present here as well.

1) Bruno frightened people and can’t have been the most popular
bachelor. It is fairly safe to assume that young
girls weren’t exactly lining up to woo the man known for his prophecies of doom
that inevitably came to pass. If the entire town’s attitude a decade after
Bruno’s disappearance was “we don’t talk about Bruno”, and if even Bruno’s
nephew Camilo now relished in talking about him as a creepy, mysterious, almost
villainous figure, it is quite likely that many were uneasy around him while he
was present as well. While he still probably was seen as a mostly positive
figure due to being one of the Madrigals, and due to his prophecies holding
useful information, most people would have found him unsettling.

Additionally, while Bruno’s behaviour
after one hundred ten years of solitude (not counting the rats) may not
be the best proof of what his personality was like in his youth, we can still
see several indicators that he was probably fairly withdrawn – from his overall
bearing, over the solitary nature of his room, to the fact that he chose to
stay hidden inside the house rather than try his luck at passing the mountains
and starting a new life somewhere far away.

2) Historically, women tend(ed) to
marry much earlier than men. Did you know that the
minimum age for marriage in ancient Rome, later to be accepted by the Christian
church, used to be 12 years for girls and 14 for boys? That was considered to
be the age when most young people, on the one hand, entered puberty and became
capable of conceiving children and, on the other, were sufficiently mature to
make decisions like adults. Through the centuries, the minimum age slowly
shifted up – likely more for the second than the first reason. Still, in most
countries, the gap between men and women remained: girls were traditionally
considered to mature somewhat faster than boys. (The fact that, despite this,
they were not given full legal capacity, political rights etc. is a different
matter, and one that would lead us into an overly long digression here.) Thus,
even in the 19th and the early 20th century, it was
perfectly normal for a country to have, for example, the minimum age for marriage
set at 16 for women and 18 for men. But, of course, this difference of two
years is not enough to explain Bruno being single at 40.

However, we also have it as a
tradition (though not a legal obligation) in many countries throughout history
for women to marry much earlier than men, and thus for a considerable
age gap to exist between husband and wife. The reasons for this are manyfold
and complex: to keep things simple, we can break them down into two main factors.
The first one would be social: as men had a more prominent social role in many
traditional societies, a young man might be expected to do some climbing on the
social ladder before marrying. That could mean going to the army, completing
higher education (, or simply laying an economic foundation for raising a
family, such as building a house, starting a trade etc. Women were either not
allowed or at least not expected to do most of these things. The second one
would be biological: women’s years of fertility are generally shorter than men’s,
and thus traditional societies considered it important for a woman to marry early
in order to have more time for child-bearing in marriage. Men could conceive children
even at a relatively old age, giving them less reasons to hurry to marry and
secure offspring. I could not find any data for marital ages in late 19th
– early 20th century Colombia on the Internet, but given what I saw
for other South American countries, I would say it is safe to assume that such
a custom did exist, at least to some extent.

Now,
we could say that most of these reasons could not apply to Bruno personally,
but that is not too relevant as long as there was a similar social custom
present. There may not have been a standing army or a university in the
Encanto, and Bruno, being a Madrigal, would not have needed to prove to anyone
in the community that he was ready to start a family. We don’t know whether he
would have preferred to marry a woman younger than himself, or someone close to
his age. But if was overall customary for men to marry later than women, and
Bruno already had a fairly frightening reputation, it is quite understandable
why neither he not Alma would have been in a hurry to find him a wife.
In
addition to all that has been said, it is worth noting that we are less than a
month away from the release of the first Encanto novel (so far, there have been
only picture books and comics), written by Alex Segura. The book, titled “Nightmares
and SueƱos” and described as a “dark and mysterious young adult novel”, will be
focused on teenage Bruno and his attempts to become as popular as his sisters –
and the developing of his sinister reputation. I don’t know if the plot will
also include a sad love story, but I do know that this is the first Disney
novel I am seriously looking forward to reading! It’s time to talk about Bruno!
Nightmares and SueƱos comes out on
December 3rd, and is available for preorder now. If you buy it on
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